Morality
Let us take a walk into the theme of “Why Are We Here?” Today’s walk is through the land of Morality. For those of you that have no idea of what morality, it is defined as such: noun: concern with the distinction between good and evil or right and wrong; right or good conduct.
So, if we are to conclude that life is meant to be lived in the shadow of goodness, then why are there so many people that walk on the dark side? There are days that I want to walk on the dark side and see what it is like, but I have never been able to walk that path. There are times where I would love to take that low road, but just can’t bring myself to do it.
The reason behind this question is because a lot of women are attracted to the “bad boys”. I have always been the guy that falls under the old saying, “Nice guys finish last.” Well, after a while, I do get tired of finishing last. It would be excellent to be able to see what it would be like to be one of those guys.
Alright, I am happy with myself, but it is just not fair that these guys are out there doing what ever they please and winning. While there are guys like me that follow the rules to a T and just don’t get anywhere. So, why does life reward evil or non-moral individuals? Is this fair? Ugh!!!!!!!!
posted by Brewster at 5:59 PM
6 Comments:
poo poo...you are married with 3 beautiful girls. you have a job you like and are mostly healthy, i would say you finished first. in comparison to certain people we both know and one of us dated, who had a major heart attack at the ripe old age of 29...see how far my wrath goes? haha
AND....i have told you before and will tell you again....you are as happy and successful as you deem yourself to be. we all have funks, i am just as guilty....but to say you finish last is just untrue.
AND as i have told you in the past, you are a friend to everyone you meet, 20 years later...who am i still chatting with? my friend.
Okay, Okay, Okay. I get the point. I don't know why I am feeling the way I am. Maybe because I am heading for the big 40. Who knows? Thank you for being there.
OK...my computer crashed when I wrote my first comment here... so I will write it again and if you have doubles, I apologize.
I am 35, married to my hubby for 15 years, and we have two beautiful awesome children. But sometimes I feel like you do.... like the good people always come in last.
In a "woman's world".... it is exactly the same as what you are saying about being a "bad boy"... if you are beautiful, have big boobs, have fancy clothes and drive a fast car, then it seems like people see you in a better light.
But I agree with "me" when he said to ENJOY being who you are. It sucks to always try to walk the straight and narrow and for some reason it always seems like life is harder for those of us who do... but in the end, THAT is what counts.
I also think that all those "bad boys" and "fast girls" are some of the most INSECURE people in the world and they would give up or do almost anything to have a "real" life like ours!
Hang in there! :)
I think we must all have times like this in our lives.
I'm 41, married 9 years, 2 kids, a mortgage, etc. etc. etc.
Sometimes I find myself thinking "why don't I have 'this', or why am I not doing 'that'?" It can send me reeling at times.
I am very fortunate to have a loving wife and family, and they always bring me back to center, where I realize just how lucky I am, and just how good my life is.
As far as you getting older. All you can do is take the best care of yourself that you can and make sure you live every day/week/month and year to its fullest. :)
Hmmmmmm Bad boys!!
Hmmmmmmm Nice guys!!!!
Hmmmmm BOYS! (ok men)
LOL can you tell this post is from a single lady? :)
We are all rewarded in different ways.
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